So... I was the one who suggested that we wait until about 28 weeks of pregnancy before starting to buy baby bits. I was worried about jinxing things. But all of that changed with the catalyst of receiving the gifts shown previously from my new Sister-in-law.
Gradually since then, we've felt more and more comfortable with the idea of getting started earlier. Last weekend we bought a Phil and Ted's baby stroller and cocoon as recommended by Margarida on the forum. This weekend we've bought lots more bits shown below. All of this has been and will continue to be second hand from specialist kids charity shops, gumtree sellers etc. (Don't worry we will replace mattresses with brand new ones :)
We have been lucky to meet a lovely NZ couple who sold us the cocoon last weekend and a load more bits this weekend. She's a nurse, and they are moving back to NZ soon and need to sell of their newborn bits now their babies are toddlers!
It was so good to meet them, she gave us so much advice. It made me realise how we had been craving this advice from a parent of little ones. My friends aren't settling down yet and my colleagues who are parents don't know about our surrogacy. It can feel like you're flying blind when you're in this situation! So we listened to her intently, bright-eyed, bushy-tailed and clueless, soaking up the advice like sponges. And I loved how she wasn't pushy about it, just gently sharing her experiences. What a god-send!
The photos probably speak for themselves :-)
Love and hugs to you all xxx
Gradually since then, we've felt more and more comfortable with the idea of getting started earlier. Last weekend we bought a Phil and Ted's baby stroller and cocoon as recommended by Margarida on the forum. This weekend we've bought lots more bits shown below. All of this has been and will continue to be second hand from specialist kids charity shops, gumtree sellers etc. (Don't worry we will replace mattresses with brand new ones :)
We have been lucky to meet a lovely NZ couple who sold us the cocoon last weekend and a load more bits this weekend. She's a nurse, and they are moving back to NZ soon and need to sell of their newborn bits now their babies are toddlers!
It was so good to meet them, she gave us so much advice. It made me realise how we had been craving this advice from a parent of little ones. My friends aren't settling down yet and my colleagues who are parents don't know about our surrogacy. It can feel like you're flying blind when you're in this situation! So we listened to her intently, bright-eyed, bushy-tailed and clueless, soaking up the advice like sponges. And I loved how she wasn't pushy about it, just gently sharing her experiences. What a god-send!
The photos probably speak for themselves :-)
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| Hello from the toy crew !! :-D |
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| All that's missing is our baby :) |
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| Our cot |
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| Accessories |
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| Love this set :) |
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| All gender neutral you'll have noticed |
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| Love the yellow polk-a-dot onesie...cute! |
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| Moses basket on a stand which can be switched to rocker or still. |
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| My view as I walk past the nursery each morning at 5.45 am ! This view will keep me going through the British dark winter mornings :-) |
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| The piggy book ends Hubby fell in love with :-) |
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| Hahaha gotta have some comedy outfits too :-) |
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| Rocker which automatically rocks and plays music if we so wish ! |
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| Einstein playmat |
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| Full kit from today's puchases |
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| Baby carriers - Baby Bjorn and Chicco |
Love and hugs to you all xxx

















Lovely pics!!! :) xxxx
ReplyDeleteThanks gorgeous girl :-)
Deleteaaah its so sweet! thanks for sharing
ReplyDeleteWoahh I'm not sure your baby's gonna have enough stuff!! It all looks so exciting - love all the sweet little baby clothes hanging on the clothes rack. I'm still reading your blog from the beginning, but thought it might be prudent to be aware of the present time too, then if you need support ... x
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely cute : ) I am happy that your little one is ding good. Time will fly away and soon I will be able to see your little ones photos. I am happy that you did your best to get your little one! I am sure you will make a wonderful mom. Take Care!
ReplyDeleteWow you have so many baby things, that's just wonderful! I have the same kind of elephants hanging in my baby to be's room! Best wishes!
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